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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

第二届《成功父母教育论坛》2010 之 纪录

2010年7月11日星期日是一个在我职业生涯中很重要的日子,因为这一天是GeneCode举办第二届《成功父母教育论坛》的正日,也是难得机会见到中国的赏识教育周弘老师和马来西亚著名的身心灵导师李政学博士。能够在同一天内上两个著名教育家的论坛真的是用一个字来形容---赞!

早上7点钟我就到了王岳海大礼堂帮忙做论坛的准备工作,也‘顺便’拍摄了几张现场的剪影。王岳海大礼堂的活动现场真的可以说是富丽堂皇,也算是见识到吉隆坡冼都华小董事会和家教协会是多么地努力发展该校,不过这是题外话。能够在一个这么好的场地举办教育论坛,可见GeneCode公司是多么地重视也很用心办好这一次的教育论坛。


差不多8时半左右,论坛的多位嘉宾都陆续到来。为了让论坛更能留下深刻的印记,大家都在签名板上留下自己的签名,以示支持!



这次两个主讲人都负责不同的主题,周弘主讲的是:《生命如水---家庭,团队和谐之道》,而李政学博士所主讲的则是:《孩子行为塑造和父母EQ管理》。

赏识教育




被尊称为“赏识老爸”的周弘在全聋的女儿周婷婷出世后,就注定要踏上不寻常的生命之路。而这一次的峰回路转,也让他正式体会到一个人的潜力是多么地不平凡。只要用对了心态、技巧,要把一个孩子的潜能给发挥出来其实一点都不难。可悲的是,正常的孩子那么多,他们的际遇就没有周婷婷那么地幸运了。正是因为正常的身躯,平凡的命就一世伴随。就算本身拥有再强天赋的天之骄子,也就这样被埋没了。

还记得曾在工作时听到一个妈妈这么说:“随便啦,她(女儿)可以念(书)的话就念咯,念不到的话就丢她去做工赚钱或随便找人嫁了就算。”听到了这儿心里不免凉了一下,这妈妈说的应该只是开玩笑的吧?可是看着她的眼神却是如此认真的模样。当她走了之后我们不禁感慨了一下,更有同事直呼怎么可以发生这样的事?孩子的到来可不是为了父母当时那几分钟的欢愉,父母是有责任要把孩子给教好的。可事实就摆在眼前,我想正看着此部落格的您应该完全不是这样的人吧?

周弘的理念,就是希望父母能够把孩子当作是一个认真的恩赐,在教导他们的过程中不只是要纠正其错误,更重要的是要懂得赏识孩子的好。周弘说,如果常常只放大孩子的不好,那这孩子则永远都摆脱不了坏;如果父母常常放大孩子的好,那这孩子将会很好地被导向好。这才是教育真正的目的。

孩子的行为塑造



儿童心理学正是李政学博士教育孩童的拿手好技,了解孩子的真正心理状态,才能从最正确的地方下手去教育孩子。概括整个李博士的讲辞,李博士最强调的教育三要素:爱心、惩罚、鼓励。这三要素非但缺一不可,而且还要同时进行,不得偏激!

爱心,自然就是强调父母的心态。父母应该用爱为教育孩子的出发点和终点,教育孩子不单只是一个责任而已。惩罚,不是以恐吓孩子,让孩子害怕而不再犯为目的,而是用不舒服为技巧,让孩子自己意识到然后主动不再犯。而鼓励,则是在惩罚孩子的过错后,应该给孩子的好进行嘉奖。这样才能让孩子的心理得到最平衡的成长,而不会因太负面而消极,太正面而伺宠生骄。当然这些广义的原则中包含着很多很多的细节,这里就难以一一解说,还是下次亲自莅临参与讲座才是最好的。呵呵~~



讲座中李博士幽默风趣,浅白易懂的演讲风格不仅让听众们听得津津有味,而且还笑声不断。而(上图)就是出席的听众跟随李博士的指示,进行中场催眠放松休息(也可以看到现场的座无虚席!)。这就是心理学上轻松幽默可以开启人的右脑学习,一旦右脑学习有效,则是伴随终生的学习记忆。而我本身也在李博士的演讲中获益不浅!


演讲嘉宾的讲座结束后,我们就和周弘老师还有李政学博士一起合影留念。当然在整个教育论坛结束后,GeneCode总裁也不忘向皮纹师们介绍公司在未来一年的发展计划和愿景,我们不但要将皮纹推广至每一个家庭,而且还要和各大教育机构合作,将皮纹的教育事业推向更高一层楼!


Tuesday, June 29, 2010

第二届《成功父母教育论坛》2010

(点击海报放大)

主办机构简介:

《成功父母教育论坛》成立于2009年,由大马发展最快的皮纹公司,基因密码国际有限公司,GeneCode International Sdn Bhd 发起,并在同年的四月五日举办了第一届的论坛,出席人数达1,000人,多为教育家及父母。第一届的论坛荣欣地邀请了永乐多斯博士,张宝幼老师及黄凯顺老师为大会的演讲嘉宾。本论坛单位是全马第一家举办大型教育讲座会为主题式的讲座会主办机构。

演讲嘉宾 :马来西亚资深亲子教育家李政学老师及中国赏识教育发起人周弘老师

主办单位 :成功父母教育论坛Success Parenting Education Forum

支持单位 :基因密码国际有限公司GeneCode International Sdn Bhd

协办单位 :MEB我最棒学习中心,Popular书局

票务慈善:所有门票部分利润将捐赠国内独中及残障中心

对象 :注重孩子教育的父母,各类教育家,校长,学者等

宣传 :各主要报章杂志及大量海报传单布条,大众书局,400个销售人员等。 

宗旨 : 

1.提升家长们对亲子教育的认识
2.掌握最新及有效的赏识教育法
3.提倡更和谐及亲密的家庭观念,改善社会风气
4.成为本地各教育家的交流中心

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想知道更多第一届《成功父母教育论坛》的现场实况可参阅:《成功父母教育论坛》照片集

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现在我们的孩子所面临的世界的竞争力越来越高,所以孩子们的教育已经不再只是老师的责任,很大程度上父母才是教育孩子的关键!老师在学校教的是技术性的知识,而为人处事、道德价值等等的就要靠在家的父母了。毕竟一个老师在学校同时面对的是4、50个学生,试问又怎能每个孩子都得到最细致的教育呢?在家里一个孩子反而有两个父母的管教,所以父母的家庭教育是起着非常大的作用和影响!

天下的父母都爱孩子,但为什么却还出现孩子叛逆不听教的状况出现呢?所以很明显的问题就出现在父母是否有用对了技巧或方法来教导孩子或和孩子进行沟通。中国‘赏识教育’之父周弘就点出传统教育观念与技巧的盲点,偏偏很多父母对这盲点后知后觉,或甚至不知不觉。结果孩子就叛逆了,不听了,或甚至逃跑了。在中国,许多父母听了周弘的一席话都无不感动流涕、泪流满面的,才回想到当初自己用错了方法,深深地伤害到孩子成长的空间和自尊。各位父母亲,过往的日子已追不回,然而将来的日子还能再努力,所以请把握这次的机会,不用到中国去听周弘分享教育观点,周弘老师将来到马来西亚和大家分享成功的教育!

这次的教育论坛将会更大型,1800人的全国教育论坛即将展开!赶快行动,门票有限!
欢迎团体购票,欲知更多详情,或者团体购票的特别优惠,请联络Kenny Wong @ 012-2579425

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2009年,马来西亚已有千位教育人士和家长意识到教育方式的改进,孩子的成长才会更茁壮!那您还等什么呢?只要您一个决定,您孩子的未来将会有着非常大的改变!



欢迎团体购票,欲知更多详情,或者团体购票的特别优惠,请联络Kenny Wong @ 012-2579425

Thursday, May 13, 2010

4、5月活动现场





在过去的4月和5月,本人参与的活动包括有太子世界贸易中心(PWTC @ KL)的Smart Kids展销会、吉隆坡谷中城(Mid Valley)的《妈妈与宝宝》(Mum and Baby)展销会、加影新纪元学院(New Era College @ Kajang)、和巴生卫星幼儿园(Tadika Sri Utama)。

在这些活动中本人接洽的客户不下100个,发现到当中几乎90%以上的客户对于自己或自己的孩子不甚了解、一知半解或甚至没有时间去了解。当我问爸爸关于孩子的性格的时候,很多爸爸都会很自然地把头转向妈妈问说:“我不清楚哦,要问妈妈才知道”。或者当我问大学生说:“你清楚知道自己的强项或潜能在哪一方面吗?”,有一些还不错,至少可以给我一点反应说不太清楚,有些则直接眼睁睁看着我不明所以,也不知道该怎么回答。没错,很多人包括我们自己一生人都在忙,但是忙到后来问一句你对你自己的了解有多深的时候,很多人都会抓头不知该怎么回答。包括身为孩子父母的,忙东忙西说为孩子忙碌,但是回到最重要且最关键的时候,却不能很明确地说明孩子的性格是怎样的,或者孩子的强项与潜能在哪一方面。

因此甚为专业皮纹检测师的我则更具使命感,决定要尽我所能帮助家长更了解孩子,帮助成人或大学生更了解自己的强势与弱势,以及还未被发掘的潜能。毕竟皮纹检测师也算是做教育行业,帮助别人在天时地利人和中了解自己,掌握自己然后再成就自己。

吉隆坡谷中城《妈妈与宝宝》展销会 (Mid Valley @ KL)


从以上照片中不难看出有很多父母或甚至是年轻人都对皮纹检测非常有兴趣,毕竟这检测在马来西亚也不过是3年左右的光景,很多人都觉得很陌生。不过只要是有常周游列国的人可能会知道,这检测在外国已经有非常悠久的历史,在台湾就已经有近20年的光景了。当中单单是台北就有80%以上的幼教课室具备这样的检测系统,他们会根据检测结果和孩子的类型来进行分班而不是以成绩作标准,然后再使用最合适的环境和方法去教导孩子,成果斐然。

所以正在看这部落格的你要恭喜了,因为在马来西亚你已经比别人先接触到这样的检测科技。想要更了解自己或自己的孩子,然后再赢在起跑点的朋友们,多元智能皮纹检测就是最可靠的解决方案!早一点了解自己,就多一个成功的机会!

掌握自己人生路:给大学生的一席话

载自国际时报(点击图放大)

  • 试问有谁能够很确定地知道自己的天赋潜能和天生的弱点?
  • 再试问有谁能够很确切地了解自己天生的性格将如何影响自己的工作与人际?


我们可以凭日常的自我观察来发现自己的潜在特质,但是有谁可以确切地自我认识,并自我提升与增值呢?如今不只是残酷的职业市场,还有想要创业的人士已经不再只是竞争于文凭的多寡和文凭的素质,而是直接个人素质的竞争

现在有这样打趣的一句话:在街上随便丢一粒石头,就可以打中一个大学生。在你出示引以为傲的文凭时,很可能你隔壁的竞争者可以拿出比你更多、更闪亮的文凭。如此一来你岂不是全盘皆输?或许在以前可能是这样,但是如今大学林立,大学录取率的90%多已经不能和以前的20%-30%比较了。在到处都是大学生的人力市场上,各大企业看重的已经不再只是近乎泛滥的文凭,而是实际的个人素质与办事效率。或许在看着这篇文章的你不妨问一问自己,我是否具备着怎样的强项或优势来保持自己的竞争能力?或者找一找身上是否具备像样的装备来和别人于商场上竞争?


尤其现在的大学生,从科目选择到毕业后就职都没有一个很完整的规划和清楚的概念。造成了毕业后的大学生未能完全适应职场的残酷竞争生活,很多课堂上所学的都未能尽用。2006年7月3日The Sun英文报就有报道:70%公立大学的毕业生失业,26%私立大专毕业生失业,34%国外大学毕业生失业。(The Sun英文报道原稿连接)而这些主要的失业原因并不全然知识匮乏,反而是实际的应用和办事能力不足,才导致他们不能应付职场的需求而失去工作或甚至连面试这关都过不了。很多大学生甚至是家长本身都不知道或甚至有心忽略这市场上正在发生的事实,认为自我了解只是Bonus,是奢侈而不是关键。须知自古孙子有言:知己知彼则百战不殆。若我们都不觉得自我认识很重要的话,则注定要在职场上吃败仗或吃尽苦头。这不是黑色恐怖,而是不争的事实。


我们是否要重蹈覆辙,踏上这些大学生的后步?而我们是否学会了珍惜机会,未雨绸缪,趁自己还未遇到这样的问题之前先彻底了解并认识自己,然后再装备自己?多元智能皮纹检测就是最佳的解决方案!大学生趁还没毕业前就先马上了解自己并装备自己,而家长的小孩更应该把握学习黄金期,让孩子赢在起跑点上!

Unveiling uniqueness


       



The Star 马来西亚首要英文报纸报导 GeneCode 基因密码皮纹检测。
纠正错误:第2页插图上的问路是靶心斗, Target Whorl, 伸长斗 Elongated Whorl,螺旋斗Spiral Whorl,和双斗 Concentric Whorl.

第三页:ATD 角度大于 55% 以上会面对学习问题,需要时间耐心教学。记者误编小于35度-45度为 Mental Retardation。

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Dermatoglyphics – or the study of fingertip patterns – helps you understand yourself better.
TAKE a close look at your fingertips. Use a magnifying glass if you have to. Look at the whorls, loops and arches. If you have a concentric whorl, high chances are that you have high levels of initiative, enthusiasm and determination. You may also be independent, competitive and bossy. A tented arch is a sign of a good learner but it may also indicate impulsiveness. A loop pointing towards the thumb signifies an easy-going personality but at the same time, you could also be one sensitive soul. If you have a combination of all three, there is a high chance that you possess multiple characteristics and may even be volatile.
Welcome to the world of “dermatoglyphics’’ or, in short, the business of self-discovery through the study of one’s fingerprints.
Creative designs: Sample prints of lunar and radial loops. Individuals with these patterns are purportedly able to think out of the box and can easily adapt to different environments. (*Error Correction : Above picture is Target Whorl, Elongated Whorl, Spiral Whorl and Concentric Whorl)
Explaining how it all works is Marcus Leng, 29, from GeneCode International, which makes use of dermatoglyphics to provide consultation services on talent profiling for individual and corporate clients.
A member of the American Dermatoglyphics Association with three years’ experience and having handled over a thousand cases, Leng was drawn to the field of fingerprint study when a Chinese professor did a scanning and analysis for him at a seminar. In 2006, Leng took a 10-day course in the subject at the Tai wan Overseas Chinese Conven tion Centre. The event was organised by the Overseas Compatriot Affairs Commission (OCAC) in collaboration with Yuen Ze University.
Dermatoglyphics, asserts Leng, is not palmistry presented in a different packaging.
“We do not give ‘predictions’ on what is going to happen. Instead, we adopt a positive stance by looking at the ridge counts which indicates a person’s learning efficiency and inborn talents,” says Leng.
To show the relation of fingertip patterns and the primal dispositions of an individual, Leng refers to the document entitled Using Dermato­glyphics From Down Syndrome And Class Populations To Study The Genetics Of A Complex Trait. The thesis was written in 1990 by Thomas Fogle, an associate professor and chair of the biology department at Saint’s Mary’s College, Notre Dame, Indiana, the United States. Fogle’s research interests include the chromosomal study of humans and exotic zoo animals.
According to Fogle’s paper, fingerprint patterns can start to form from as early as the sixth to seventh week of fertilisation. Ridge growth and patterning is believed to coincide with nerve and tissue development. The whole process inadvertently boils down to genetic influences on nerve and epidermal growth.
“There is a full explanation on the above theory in a research paper from the Centre of Anthropological Studies at Fudan University, Shanghai, in 2003. During practical sessions, the finger and palm prints of mentally retarded children were recorded and studied. This research states that the total number of ridge counts are an indication of a person’s learning capabilities,” says Leng.
Do the math: Measuring intelligence using the dermatoglyphics method. The angle is determined from the triadic point at the base of the palm to the points at the bases of the forefinger and pinky. *The normal count is between 35° and 45°. Anything below suggests mental retardation* Error Correction: Above 55° is indicate of learning difficulties
And yes, humankind has used the knowledge to their benefit. One of Leng’s favourite examples is revealing how the former USSR and The People’s Republic of China had used dermatoglyphics to recruit talent for the Olympic games in the 1970s. As it turned out, the USSR took home 50 gold medals in 1972 and 125 in 1976. By the 1980s, China had also adopted the Russian method of selecting sporting talents.
“What they did was to check for the learning sensitivity levels of these athletes by measuring their palms. An individual’s learning sensitivity is gauged through measuring the ATD angle (the triangle formed by the points at the base of the palm, forefinger and pinky). A normal reading would fall somewhere between 35° and 45°. “In Genecode’s practice, these readings are used as a means to detect learning difficulties in children so that they can be addressed early,” says Leng.
Not surprisingly, the field of dermatoglyphics is also gaining popularity in Taiwan, Hong Kong and China, achieving a market value of several hundred million dollars in Taiwan alone. Most times, it is the parents who send their children’s fingerprints for analysis, in the hope that the results will help them plan for their children’s education.
Vouching for its accuracy, Leng cites the case of a mother who came to him with her daughter’s fingerprints.
“She didn’t tell me much about her 10-year-old daughter but, from the analysis of her fingerprints, we found out that she had very little aptitude for musical talent which requires fine motor skills. When I relayed this to the mother, she confirmed that her daughter had been taking piano lessons for the past five years but had yet to go beyond Grade 2 in the pianoforte exams. The results finally convinced the mother to channel her daughter’s attention to better use elsewhere,” says Leng.
Positive approach: ‘We do not give predictions on what is going to happen. Instead, we adopt a positive stance by looking at the ridge counts which indicate a person’s learning efficiency and inborn talents,’ says Marcus Leng.
In addition to free demos in local schools and universities, Leng has also done analyses for various organisations and companies.
“The whole idea is to help the CEOs understand their staff’s talents for HR optimisation purposes,” says Leng.
No doubt, fingerprint study is seen as an invaluable tool for discovering one’s abilities and in determining the right career paths.
Take Andy Yong, 37, a father of two and a motivational trainer, for instance. It has only been a few months since Yong was first introduced to the subject of fingerprint study. While he does not deny that it was curiosity that prompted him attend a talk on the subject, he had not bargained for the deep fascination that ensued.
Expectedly, not only has Yong submitted his own set of fingerprints to GeneCode for analysis, he has also convinced his wife and two daughters to do the same. In addition, Yong has also paid Genecode RM13,970 for a licensing fee which includes a four-module course on fingerprint pattern analysis and consultation. This latest certificate is another addition to Yong’s many other skills he has acquired over his eight years of experience as a trainer; the art of hypnosis is another one of them.
“I see this as a tool I can use in the course of my personal consulting work as it will give me better insight into an individual’s abilities. This way, I will be able focus on developing the individual with greater accuracy rather than resort to guesswork,” says Yong.
So far, Yong has seen 30 cases, and they vouch that the data is 80% accurate.
Of course, there will always be cynics who opine that people like Leng and Yong are just trying to make a fast buck using the fingerprint reading strategy as a gimmick.
“What people are is a result of the environment and their upbringing. In life, nothing is predestined. Telling people what they can and cannot be may discourage them from pursuing their true calling,” says Phylis Chen, 74, a retired banker who quips that hand-reading, through fingerprints or otherwise, is nothing more than 80% guesswork and 20% “bluff ology”.
Azmi Ibrahim, 46, a civil engineering lecturer at UiTM does not fully agree though he has never gone for palm-reading or a fingerprint analysis. Still, he believes that the lines on our palms do mean something.
“By their uniqueness, whereby no two people can have the same patterns, it is possible that the lines have something to do with the unique characteristics of the person,” says Azmi.